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1, 28 male, large female 10 days, 1 year ago A city of strangers, after the woman back to B City C City men for women to work, each May be 2 to 3 times from C to B City City to see women .09 years of Valentine's Day, saw a total of 15 times or so, spent a total of about 10,000 (45% for girls to spend together to spend 35%, 20% of loans, consumption 99 % of male pay), through QQ SMS phone contact with the girl, has made it clear to the women express their love. separator 2, the men and women take the initiative and any exchange of ideas, can not care about men and women, each time for men to say their odds are idea. Valentine's Day to the 09 woman can not be love (no chance of intimate relations, there have been occasional shopping hand, there have been occasional parting embrace Valentine's Day shopping, men holding hands is not allowed to), Valentine's Day a few days the boys day, women did not receive a blessing. men are not feeling confident in front of women, fare well for a woman feel loved. Valentine's Day men and women began to talk at the KFC was also happy, very good atmosphere , men to women was a bit tired recently said he felt no confidence in the women's front. Women are very angry and went home. In the men back to the way C City, received text messages women: she has not fully accepted the men do not want men and the recent and then to contact her. men have asked the woman what is considered male and female A very good friend. male very hard to accept, and claims that dedication, and love her more than you love yourself, love Mom. Several times she was wrong, but also take the initiative to Mistaken identity. too soft too affectionate male performance, this time, the first 2 days men waiting for her on the phone said.
woman to say you are her friend, she was only prepared to enjoy your behalf to bring the benefits, such as caring and material gifts. a good friend is hard to become a boyfriend, your question is too active, and for the near point and ran away from her work mm C City during this act can be in love, in no Love is when serious self-disarm. Love is an art, the art of battle of wits, as long as you have assumed a posture at any time to leave, anxious person is her.
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2, 45 female doctors. Cardiff 51 doctor. children have great .2006 husband was having an affair, the woman student. female anger, a quarrel, the man said to have been broken and to review their own. real men entangled with the affair led to the couple quarrel and eventually women make compromises so far. just this year, the New Year, men and suddenly his keys taken away all of the clinic, and go live. duo broke up and the formalities. But the division of property can not be, men asked women to sue him, women refused. A few days later, men and women back home to mother spare key away, and go home, and review. ask women what to do?
divorced people have been laying the spectrum, tossing to and fro, apparently some things have not arranged to play the delaying tactic the. rush to file for divorce court and require the implementation of matrimonial property preservation clinic, or over a longer period of time men go, this clinic have the key, not your name in the industry.
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3, female, 28 male 49, married with a daughter, man also has a daughter with his ex-wife, alimony, divorce is a lump sum. ex-wife called the man to pay tuition, money to push men and women that should be read, man would not. M how the mother is 70, not to visit, saying it was a bad mother to the men, the truth is not to the men and money, the mother money. Women should not feel. Now men and the economy is getting worse, the family can not afford the cost, but also asked the old woman asking for money, women did not give to the old curse women, women feel that this is not working. Men do not smoke or drink, bad temper, reliable, gambling, and his ex-wife a divorce, lost the bet because hundreds of thousands, Macau is now a few times a year to go, the old transmission. Q: The women do not leave to her daughter? women from around the others do not, including friends and relatives, how do?
his big you so much, why did you marry him? gambling If the defects can not change, the family business is not good. He is a view of their mother, who has, how can we treat others? you or still young kids who should not talk it out.
hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh < br> 4, my mother powerful, eye-more narrow-minded, if particularly high. her 18-year-old lost his mother, 28-year-old lost his father, in addition to a younger brother, and half-brother and a 2-over 80's sister. but they almost are not mutually exchanges. because of similar character, temper. no matter what the father does not worry about anything, thanks to manage her mother, her mother in charge of all things, as the father of her children are the same no matter what meek timid. my husband brothers and sisters in the middle row, from childhood growing up with Grandma. his heart is not very talkative little timid. If a non-law students, her husband did not say a word, but he is not considerate of people, narrow minded, a little small and sleep well, I often disappointed because he did not share what for me, not a broad mind and a reliable shoulder. next week, her mother will come to stay for some time to remember the days of coexistence scalp tingling. and they need skills to get along, I have not yet explored out.
her mother if only to live for some time, rather than permanent settlement, try to spend at best: tolerance. less time at home, and more for travel, if no chance to the old bulb out and pretend it was busy at home it, so busy that attend to look at her mother's face, listening to my mother's words. the mother to the period around the house to her responsibility for the mercy of what she had heard, we have time to shut the door reading, told her mother, soon to test, test, but have a job, let her worry about points governing man and child. your mother is tired and run it the best results.
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5, look at your blog, admire you insight into human nature. you give love and marriage, many women struggling Oliver to the direction and strength. Meanwhile, the more there is a see of your article can not resolve the question: In your world, love is not a good thing, not worth it persistent, unless it results in the comfort of marriage. burglary consequently no shortage of that society, for lack of dedication. The so-called persistent, that is, do not ask the results of investment. how can I even do not even get their input into it? love is mutual If the other party is always right and so on, can be replaced, but the attachment should not be changed. career, no nothing attached, in love, did not really have a pair of dedicated people, a harmonious marriage and then comfortable, experience less than a love supreme happiness and deep pain, life is regrettable. your ideas are a little too real and underestimated the human capacity to enjoy the good feelings? We are not the reality of the pen should not be applied with the romantic dream of the people out? of course, the dream is to burst, but did not even dream in life Is good enough for you? What do you think?
me a youth gambling tomorrow, 潇洒走一回. This is an attitude towards life. as long as you feel the value, you then do. Anyway, those few years of life, how frustrating do not become long. But people have drunk this wine experience: Enjoy Xunxun Ran to get high, after a more prolonged discomfort. So, others think: If you believe that getting drunk too expensive, it should not be drunk. This is both attitude towards life. Generally speaking, such an attitude is very difficult to change. a few words to say along, only that listen to than hear the people, for the true alcoholic, and to persuade them to stop drinking is of no use.
if I do not believe in love, I could write 99 purpose is to get people awake, but not drunk with. want to see drunk, three years since he had an affair, and now more and more insolent, lover and out of open days with relatives and friends at home, let me be very physical and psychological harm. I have repeatedly mentioned the divorce grief, for various reasons the final composite. In his view, man Women play normal, I take things too hard. He kind of personality so I do not have a sense of security, is looking for young girls in his online chat, his eyes showed the kind of affection, I want to do also, and he had!
mess of Many men, but filled with a good friend can go public, really small, you men do, and that he did not in general, thick skinned, quality tolerance. to such a pig, you have to reluctantly, then it It Meizhe. If he economy is good, tell him one time to two child support comes out of education expenses, and then leave him with 2 children.
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7, recently my husband to move to another unit city. I'm very good, I have forty-five, and did not want to find work, and it is two points or another recipe?
first two right, and then improvise a few years you retired then to the last reunion. their whole unit to move out on my own much better than he was at least familiar with colleagues and organizations in the eyes, under the proper constraints of his behavior. usually have more opportunities to see him, phone message handling the point, do not call him Lingding sense.
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8, 36,9 years I was married, and female 7 years old. He was born in rural areas, are subject to higher education, through their own efforts, has finished paying back the principal. He was very obedient, I feel that he minds his own home, have a dispute because of his family too much, not for the sake of my family, hi acrimony and regret. I do not like quarrels, offensive foul language. has been domestic violence, as was not from this time impulsive (not satisfied with his family), reached a divorce. if not his house, we will be good. felt sorry for him, how his parents how I felt, not as he thought. now divorced in August, AA system, but he refused do not move (house owned by me, and give him some compensation), that can not do without me. In addition to ML, as a family outside. everyday dishes to cook, how do I deal?
he even want to rely on at home, and that also have to pay rent and other costs, right? now and keep him a few days, you have to hold it, do not ML, out of love, give him pressure, forced him to put himself remarried. then your condition is to his notary: longer conflict with his parents, his family, he went out purification.
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9, My boyfriend and I venture in Beijing, we met after college, feeling has been stable, and collect the cards. before I institutions in the province of B work is stable, but treatment to a thousand dollars. He asked me out, went to him, I came out. At that time, the false side of leadership is to ask, wages stopped. But now the economic crisis, the situation is not good, we day is very hard, I can still be obtained, parents often call her boyfriend and told me to go back and continue to do my share of stable jobs, they agreed that I threw away four gold share of the work of a pity. This makes me very contradictory, We do not want the two separated the two and, if you want to return? think back to be reconciled, to live this life in that old, it is not passion. does not go back, and now can not see the day when they could stay succeed?
his parents opinions are very fair, you'd better go back, no two people can not be a stable income, such as the economic crisis in greater depth when you eat? then go back to lead, how do you do?
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10, my husband and classmate, married 6 years in love, son 6 years old and started feeling good, he was derailed last year that I was angry, send a message to the woman, primarily to belittle him, and said he did not sense of responsibility, sex No, do a few to ejaculation (the actual situation is the first case, but the second time having sex for a long time), asked to be with her is not the same. original key is too angry, so it Koubuzeyan. SMS was seen by her husband (forgot deleted on the phone). He was Shangzi Zun, saying that the spirit of combating large. I argue with him: Why keep thinking I hurt him, how he is hurt me? and is He first hurt me. I thought about the reason he will be derailed, mainly because we usually lack of communication, are not very concerned about each other's sake, since we all want to live, it should take concrete action.
At first I also take the initiative to ease the atmosphere close to him, but he was indifferent, I've had enough, we are now one of a quilt to sleep. nor is it cold, anyway, neither hot nor cold, and now I do not know how to do? their own re- initiative? they feel unfairly treated very cheap, my self-esteem by his heel; still waiting for him to take the initiative? always been our relationship can not go on like this, right? He spoke also trying to change myself, and I feel he just cope, do not know in the end in mind?
Oh, speak your IQ is not low, to find three afterwards also primarily nausea and his men did not attack each other, performed well. but you men are too lenient on you, he derailed, because you ruin his sexuality, he can forget his big mistake derailment, anti-Lai you hurt his self-esteem? whenever could derail the former spouse is not ready to self-esteem, and he is now to throw a tantrum, simply vexatious, funny borne. he did not know who he is. Now we have cool he cool it, do not believe he will be so divorced. If you on the rush to please him, and he thought justified the derailment.
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11, men and women currently graduate students in different places, four men chasing women, women and men want to always feel no sense of love, but the male of female very good, very motivated. Women can not give men positive answer, and now with another woman about men love, women and regret at this time, men will always think of many benefits, like the woman or the man that (is true that men do not like the current girlfriend), does not fit her, as long as the woman that like him, want him back, male to back. you woman how to do what now? If men come back, the last two did not come together, it would mean that not only harm that woman (that woman like man) also harm men?
Do not mix, and if you can see in him, he will not chase you do not rely on the past 4 years. Now a stable family, and you worry about the outcome, boring. to find the person you have feelings, do not dry the expense of others self-serving thing.
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12, 38, her husband of 40 women are married (no children history) for 5 years. love, tenderness, generosity during the LG, the economy no good women. Last year that LG had an affair 2 years (small three women know), choose to forgive after a huge fight. ml discord, women have needs, LG always an excuse to say no 2-March 1-2 times (thought LG inferiority, not force.) positive women live, cherish family , thought positive, moral advocate. LG promise not to contact the three, but the mobile phone to send text messages that do not save, and also some useless short mail message retention (female satisfied that there is deleted). and I do not want to see him in the QQ chat ( do not keep records). Women do not mind at ease. now LG and women with most of the time, do not go out at night. housework to do both. with the business (for business women before marriage), women responsible, LG money from women here to.
have that thing ever since, the women found that LG is very selfish (self-centered), and LG's not the same as the basic values of life. and LG have been watching pornographic videos, female nausea, I do not know how many times removed him also talked to him, also vowed not to see. discovered recently read. that thing is like a malignant tumor, cut not the kill one. LG is not defective, or a man like that? women angry, very willing to these things to worry about, bored, and he always want to separate, but that the family has not come easily. are depressed, I do not know how to do? Please shun advice!
do not ask questions after this, because only two Road: either divorced or patience. Since it was not going to divorce, you are only one way: Ren Xiaqu.
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13, her daughter was last week found three positive hepatitis B, although some psychological preparation, or that day step on. I also have hepatitis B, when the blood found in secondary reading, but did not know what this means, and poor families, afraid not to read, so do not tell the family, and later as brothers and sisters to school for, there is no more in-depth examination and treatment. wait for attention when it was already three positive. I do work experience at a great feeling and trouble. husband with his tolerance of my disease tolerant, very grateful to him, but he is quite likely simple, when they have not thought that far, if he knows his daughter will be so today, I do not know if he was I would not choose.
daughter how to do, the disease not effective drugs. how can I train her? good Let her grow up as normal children? there are some specific issues, such as the most urgent is that the disease can not even kindergartens are on, how do? husband very sad, but refused to communicate with me this question, I mean a little strange. Now do not touch to specific issues that may be living this way, but if one day practical problems, and I wonder if he will take with me. I love him, and did not want to lose this house, and if I have to raise her daughter by the , would be more difficult, I pay about 3000, but because education is not high, and there the disease, so hard to break in their careers. and the baby have been very unfortunate, but also lost father, it is hard to imagine the future .
you can not mind your man had the disease, we would not easily abandon his daughter. First Do not try so far, take control of the child's illness, even if not on the nursery, primary total energy on it, otherwise contrary to compulsory education Law of the. discrimination against hepatitis B patients is really the soft underbelly of this society, we expect a lot of money the Government can spend the money where the needs of the people, full development of medical and health services, early lifting of the patient physical and mental pain.
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14, female 24, undergraduate civil servants. his 24 secondary school, the family was poor, in public institutions work, concrete work is not very good, according to all of us and my parents view is, no culture, no education personnel do that type of work. and his love a year, at first I did not want to be with him, and tell the truth a little scornful of him. has refused, but he is extremely determined to recover after me, I was looking for someone a good romance hurt me, so he and his together. he and I now feel more and more inappropriate, he can not give my life, even if only very general level of the public. After a honeymoon period, I found a common language is not a lot. front Time to mention breaking up,UGG boots, but he loved me too dependent on me, after a naughty no points off. now or want to sub, but he strongly disagreed, against too much for him. And God knows what he'll do!
points have to be quick points, decisive points, cut the Gordian knot. no matter determined not to agree to accept, even if the marriage has Hing divorce, I am not willing to sentence the court can do, can not he big on the big, otherwise you s sure to regret it later. is not the feelings of stress long-term harmony.
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15, he and I were together for almost three years. now that he and his former girlfriend had ties to call or send an ambiguous message to meet. that woman is now married, and we divided the city, about 4 hours. The woman loved him, many years ago to mention my boyfriend broke up with her, and now the woman told him that he wanted to give birth to a child. Some time ago I QQ on the boyfriend has no intention to see her message, Qingyimianmian. when she knew I was his current girlfriend, and I said a lot more than they love it, it sound like I'm just a decoration. I had a big quarrel with her boyfriend , the chat history also showed him, he promised that women will no longer be linked. may on Valentine's Day, they found the phone, and an afternoon pass three. I'm hurt, he said I make a fuss , said the total that this is not working. I really want to break up, can be together so long, I quite love him, which should not believe they did nothing. shun sister, I would be more how to do really good!
them Nothing would be only a deuce. Valentine 3 saving phone connected men and women, can not be washed ambiguous suspect. If you live up to expectations, in regard to his back, right, are no match for even a married woman, but also cherish him what ah? < br> hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
16, my 25 graduate students, graduating in July this year, before the university has a boyfriend, get along with 4 points in last year's inappropriate. Now is single, because no school, the family would like to introduce it, and some have concerns about other the condition is not good (personal condition). I have lost confidence in blind date, because the parents are ordinary workers, people who know limited (the quality is not high, not as good as my high school classmates.) Chinese New Year gathering of high school and saw a man like (like before), but how not spoken to high school. He should be after undergraduate work in Beijing. I finally meet him when brisk mobile phone number, not the nerve to ask. In order to strengthen the impression that sent him one, I was ***, often linked. him back, has been saved, and this year is the 10th anniversary of our school, he wanted to organize the party, I must go. I say yeah. no below the.
people did not take the initiative, I am sorry initiative, the dried wait for the next meeting. But I also think that the ratio of active to passive for high quality (previous experience). now I'm ready to graduate study, may also stay in Beijing work, I've asked students to help me find out he has a girlfriend, and not explore to .25, and a little anxious, do not laugh, ah, more than half have a boyfriend around the friend, the fear of growing old and looking for their own not appropriate.
recurrence 2 SMS, mainly thought of the past against him, and now the joy of reunion. If he smart, and you were a little favor, he'll invite you all get together when a small , you immediately said yes, and redoubling its efforts to arrange an informal meeting of the time the first bar. If he does not say, you do not take the initiative, the woman nothing was too good outcome is always active.
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17, I'm 29, looking for a lot of her boyfriend, your favorite ex-boyfriend, but for some reason did not come together now after the rush to find a boyfriend. Although he was younger than me, very good to me, it let me, it hurts I, the winter cold, I'm always cold hands and feet, and he no matter what I do not smell odor, to help me take off your shoes into his face or chest warm. What is even more delicious to eat gave me. but he was particularly narrow-minded, want to make ten calls a day (we divided the city), and friends out to dinner unhappy, and friends went out to play even more upset. I am a outgoing person, a lot of entertainment but also a lot of friends, I try not to go out for him, but it is such The total for these fight the Cold War also. years ago because of my colleagues and I went out to play fight, he broke it, friends tried to persuade me that he was not good enough for me, let me re-find, because I figure looks pretty good, whether he was general, not tall.
now he asked me again, saying he was wrong, after not so narrow-minded, and treat me right. I now have contradictions, hesitating and good. others quite honest, for me well, have never not play every day to make money, but the thought of his narrow-minded I can not stand, I will go out like a green hat like his band.
eye problems is to change or not small out, you still do not soft-hearted moment, but also harm you and he wasted another 2 years.
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18, my daughter 28, and her boyfriend of 31 university students, exchanges of 8 years. during which he focused on learning and career, never to accompany me, and just live together, my dissatisfaction with him that he only said I naive, they will play, not progress. In fact, I never get over the sweetness of love. say we were not lovers, but a long time I have adapted. after he buy a house, but not, marriage, renovated with the two children he Gesao came to live. said to be poor, an emergency. lived for half a year, I think I have 27, and The married, they live in and when the head ah? then mention marriage, let them go. But look, they are family to me dissatisfied. boyfriend does not help me to speak, his family ridiculed me unhappy. He said I do not respect his family. I'm so wronged. I did not do anything wrong, other people's eyes I was a weak kind of girl, want to split up. ah, but can not let go feelings of 8 years.
never thought your boyfriend want to marry you, so you come out to catch him Gesao away, of course, ridiculed by his family not willing to .8 years, Oh, if you talk to him to fight 8 years, you're a worse plight.
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19, female 31, looks in, and 170 high, stable. last peace talks broke up with her boyfriend for 3 years, because he fell in love with other people. then also talked about, no results. Recently a friend introduced me to the object, the three divorced men and fifteen or sixteen, no children, a stable job, sub 170, and after that meeting did not feel. external conditions around the colleagues that he can and told me not to pick. but he did not associate with him the idea. Taking into account age of some big, but also in the small town, like most women my age have been married, so do not know to continue, or will?
people this is not your will, I think you quite suitable, currently not you better than he.
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20, I am a divorced woman who had been almost five years, because he and I had had an affair, both sides are divorced. I love him more than eight , cohabitation after divorce are also more than four years, during which we had separated for six months have trouble, then he found me again, and reconciled. together with joy but also tears, and this year I think and he had a result, because this year I d years old, I do not have time to such a delay, consumption can not afford, no matter what the outcome I wanted one, had forged the feelings of so many years. I asked him, first, if still love me, and I am willing to spend the next rest of my life to get married; Second, if do not want to marry me, we like He Hao scattered. His answer made me a headache, it is difficult to choose. He said he loved me, from the beginning to now love, but he thought a good marriage , now also not in the mood, he would consider another eight years, and he wanted me to focus on him, with him together for his cause, for the rest of his life lay the foundation. People have called you for I often look at the new splash woman reported she and her judge, I would like to ask you, how do you say I should do?
8 years after his career is developed, then you is 50, and more gold and old men can girl out on more than 20, you can only find 60 or so to serve the old man. Do not listen to him, get out of him, this man does not love you.
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