Do not let us continue with the wound recent four injured girlfriend of love, have to talk with me, and I have been able to experience the four specimens of withered love.
Sadly not love must end, but love is sometimes so unbearable end.
I also wanted to take my state always is: are falling out of love, about falling out of love, romance ... ... chronic illness treatment into medical care, I gradually worked out a few of experience, or a few scars. Do not recall the sweet memories, as will only make one more painful. Do not compare his attitude before and after breaking up, because there is no meaning. Do not doubt his decision, because he has decided. Do not try to restore, because it is not worthwhile to save. Do not forgive him the spur of the moment, because even if only impulse, a person must be responsible for their own impulses. Do not worry you will miss him the most horrible thing in your life, he is not afraid to miss you, you afraid of? Do not be afraid you are going to fall into a life without love, because that is impossible.
not because a person has abandoned you and enlarge the value of his infinite, infinite stretch your love, it is just an illusion, because at this time the pain has become one of your amplifier. Do not self-pity sorrow, if you believe you have been insulted, to be angry because anger has the power, but no pity.
was not the best way to hide my face from insult whining cry, but also angrily threw back: the inviolability of human dignity, he did not see anything.
forget as much as possible, my dear friend. Forget the bear thing, forget those ugly things.
you know, forget and never noticed things, almost to never happened. And then remember. Remember that even if we try to forget, but still as thin as the sun falling debris, still let us feel the warmth of things. I have always believed, that stuff is still valuable, and it is our only gift.
seems to me that romance has four phases: the first stage is not to believe, can not accept this fact. Love will find all kinds of evidence that still exists, although you Pafu on the ground, finally caught are full of old love to shed off the body. The second stage is anger, is libelous, try to make yourself to hate that person, over and over all his past and today are the quality of your love. The third stage is to restore, begging you put down the self-esteem takes the plunge, you feel the pain of losing his tightly guarded than your dignity, you luck and hope. The fourth stage is that you cynical, dismissive of the past belief in love, you actively looking for alternatives, eager to fall in love with a stranger, to prove his recovery. Then ... ... calm down, continue to live, and then fell in love with the next person.
A friend asked me, what wisdom can skip the stage? I thought for a moment, said no. But falling out of love so many times, I will skip the third stage, can be considered progress bar
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